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Sunday, April 27, 2008

The Secret Revealed: Exposing the Truth About The Law Of Attraction




In this presentation, I will consider the book entitled The Secret Revealed: Exposing the Truth About The Law of Attraction. Please read the previous post as this entry is the second in a series based on this book. I will continue sharing my thoughts to some of the critiques by the authors via the lens of my own personal and professional experiences. Note that I made mention in the previous post that although I had seen the film The Secret, I had not yet read the book of the same name when I began writing the outline for this series. Since that time, I have read The Secret, and it will be the focus of a future entry. I would like to base this entry on the word “intention.” Please go to “The Word Is…” on my website for an audio presentation on tips to enhance the power of your “intention.”

Intention is a word that I think is hard to understand. I looked up the word in my Webster’s dictionary and found that it is classified as a noun and defined as “an act or instance of determining mentally upon some action or result.” This definition appears to be close to that of the verb “intend” which is defined as “to have in mind as something to be done or brought about.” I don’t think intention is a “thing” or an “action.” Wikipedia describes “intentional behavior” as “thoughtful and deliberate goal-directedness.” This defines a behavior similar to setting goals.

So, how would I define the word “intention?” I offer to you that intention is a “state of consciousness.” I have to add I am certainly not an expert on linguistics, but I mean to use this definition as a way to understand the general concept of the word if not the strict definition. Maybe an example would elucidate what I mean.

Have you, or do you know of other people who have, fallen in love when meeting someone for the first time and making statements such as “When I saw her, I knew I would marry her” or “The moment I saw him, I knew he was the love of my life.” What do these statements mean? Well, I don’t think they are referring to “a thing” or “an action” or even "a thought." They are referring to a “knowing” or an experience of something that "just is.” I think this “knowing” is the same as “intention” in that neither concept refers to a thing, an action, or a thought. It is a state of consciousness.

In this book, the authors commented on a couple wanting to buy a house and their stance that there is an absurdity in “thinking” something into existence. They concluded that it took money, looking at many homes, and “taking wise and diligent actions.” They added, “In time, they will own a home that meets their needs: not because they “thought it into existence” but rather because after their thinking came actions in alignment with that desire.” I agree with the authors. There first is a wish/desire and thought about the object of that wish/desire. Then there are actions that are taken towards obtaining that object. But, buying a home can still be done without having “intention” as I defined it. Just as having faith that they will eventually be able to buy this home is an added bonus (if you will) it would be a bonus if there is also an “intention” to have the home of their dreams.

Maybe another example? You are hungry for a round-ish, red fruit labeled an apple. You are not thinking “round-ish, red fruit labeled an apple.” You are more likely to briefly experience the apple (taste? scent?) for which you currently have a wish/desire. It is this experience or state of consciousness that I would label intention. You may take the action needed to obtain it such as getting some money, going to the store, and buying the apple. You then have in your hand the thing that was the object of your wish/desire. And when you take a bite of that apple you have reached your goal.

Intention is not a thing, action, or thought. It is a state of consciousness. I will address intention again later with my entry on the book The Secret. Maybe by then I will have better examples or have feed back from you about what is your interpretation on intention that may change my own. Until then, I hope this entry clarifies my conception of the word.

Thank you. May this book be influential in your life on your own road to success. Please contact me if there is a particular book you would like me to read and review.

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At April 28, 2008 5:56 AM , Blogger jcurtis said...

The Secret is the latest and by far the worst example of a HIGHLY profitable trend where self-help gurus with fabricated new age titles and little relevant education, credentials or legitimate expertise brainwash us into believing that they know what is best for us, our marriages and our families.

Often their only contribution to society is introducing some exotic sounding, new age philosophy. However, they often cleverly form an incestuous group of like-minded “experts” who cross-promote each other by swearing their success is due to following the beliefs of another member of their “cult!” All the while, they ply the airwaves jockeying for an ever-larger audience by appearing in the national media to garner third-party endorsements.

The Self-Help Movement has become the Self-Destruct Movement by diminishing or destroying our critical thinking skills to choose and evolve on our own. We have given up the freedom to build healthy lives, marriages and families based on our unique history and life experience. Instead many victims, blinded to the value of their own life experiences, are attracted to the latest secret in self-help, in an attempt to find out what they should think, feel and how they should act... this is the definition of a cult.

The solution is a return to our (common) senses! The best way out of this learned “self-helplessness” is to go cold turkey. Stop following ALL self-help gurus now. Begin, instead, to reclaim your natural, God-given ability to think for yourself. The common sense that was once readily available to all of us is still there free of charge and waiting to be applied to just about any challenge we might face in life… all you have to do is use it.

Please, let's all work together to stop the flock of "sheepeople" who blindly move from one UNPROVEN concept to the next, looking for the answers to life's challenges that you already possess and that is the OBVIOUS!

 
At May 22, 2008 3:47 PM , Blogger Dr. Rivera said...

Sorry for the late response.

I think it is important for people to follow their own knowledge, wisdom, and intuition. There is no one way to live one's life. Some live life by faith in a particular religion and other's do not. Some live life by the "seat of their pants" and others have 5 and 10-year plans. Everyone must find their own way.

The Secret has been a very popular film and the book continues to be on the Bestseller list. I review books that are of interest not only to me, but what I consider to be of interest to other people as well. And when I review books, it is to discuss my own thoughts, feelings, and experiences in addition to conveying the basic premise of the book.

I welcome all comments because it provides readers to my blog with a point of view other than my own.

Thank you for your comment.

 

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